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It has come to my attention that many of you like to have your boys rimming each other, and many of you are female. So let me clear something up for you: not all male male couples rim. In fact, many do not. Many of us men attracted to men are grossed out and turned off by the concept, and cannot stomach the rest of your pics and fics because we’re puking at the thought of a men’s version of two girls one cup happening on accident. Even when male-male couples do rim, it’s not a necessary act of gay sex. Porn is made to please everyone with the most common fetishes, so they would have you think otherwise depending on the company. They are idiots. Note the foot fetish thing. How many people do you think really do that? it’s completely analogous to rimming. So please, at least reduce the rimming in your stories. We make flavoured lube in the real world for a reason, it’s time you’ve added some to your false one.
Based on my research methodology studies, I can safely say that it is improper to say that 20% of all men who have sex wih men have HIV.
Some reasoning that could be picked up via careful reading:
- Only 8,153 men were included in the study. Erego, not “all” gay men were surveyed.
- All of the men were (presumably) cismen
- The men were “self-identifying gay and bisexual men” This means they were out of thecloset.
- The study only included 21 LARGE US cities. We have MANY more than that, therefore I should like to say location plays a factor. Please get local stats for reference.
- I wouldn’t doubt that NYC and San Fransisco were included in the list of cities, but I can’t seem to find the actual study anywhere, only “quotes” from it.
- Percentages greatly varied depending on race
- Age was also a factor (those who were teens/young adults in the 80’s had the highest percentages. If I know my gay history correctly…)
- There’s no mention of males ages 13-18, who (believe it or not) can identify as gay and do have sex.
- None of this gives any man (or person of any gender) a reason not to wear a condom during any sexual act involving the penis, anus, and/or vagina.
So it would be cool if the HIV/gay men correlation stereotype could calm the fuck down. The highest infection rate (“of those surveyed”) was in Baltimore, Maryland (39%), so just wear a condom if you plan on fucking a “sweet southern boy”
Sources (and yes I would be willing to get more)
And these motherfuckers. Estas putas de mierda estúpida. Just let me break down how I get matched with people on this site.
They’re friends who have already established the friend zone. Match percentage: 80%+ (FUUUUUUUUUUU)
People that have already been involved with my friend(s) Garen and/or Caleb: 75%+ (I don’t want my friends’ sloppy seconds. This is not the L word. I do NOT do drama.)
People I actually want to try going for: 60% or less. (in the gay dating site world, anything less than 70 means please try again never)
The only exception is at like 75%. Exactly. And I’m 100% sure he’d never go for me. Fucking Fuck-fuck fuckitty fuck. I LITERALLY can’t get laid in this town (But all of my options in Syracuse. CONSTANT FUCKING TEXT MESSAGES. Like, why these underage guys still on my dick? I DON’T FEEL LIKE GETTING ARRESTED. STOP SEXTING ME)
Our Response to Rick Perry… (by MikieandMatthew)
These are my College boys/Lovelies Matt and Michael. And they are over night viral video sensations.
The Charity Search launched at midnight, and allows you to search Google, Yahoo, or Bing the same way you would any of those search engines on their own. The difference is, each search donates 1 cent to Invisible Children and other great organizations. How easy is that? Can you imagine how fast that money adds up, given how many people use search engines every minute?
SEND THEM AND E-MAIL WITH THIS ATTACHED IF YOU WANT THEM TO HELP LGBT YOUTH
Subject: Suggest and Organization
I would really like to see the Trevor Project on your organization list. They’ve saved the lives of many of my LGBT+ friends and family numerous times. Their aim is to help prevent suicide, depression, and self-harm in LGBT+ youth or youth who are picked on/bullied/harassed for expressing traits that are considered by their peers to be “gay.” They’re partnered with Google, but it’d be awesome to see them on the list for June (LGBT+ Pride month), October (gay history month) or November (national suicide prevention and awareness month) through you as well, seeing as how Google is a part of your concept.
Their website is http://www.thetrevorproject.org/
I would also like to suggest the It Gets Better Project, which has a similar aim but instead of acting as a resource/reference hotline it encourages people to tell these youth that life does get better, and that there’s no reason they shouldn’t be there to see that it does. You can find them at http://www.itgetsbetter.org/, The previously suggested months work as well.
Please, if there’s any cause that deserves this, it’s these guys. Thank-you for your time.